God has guided us in this whole process; God has made this all possible. While The Professor (who has a Masters in physics) has long wanted to pursue a Ph.D. in such a program, and has applied at several different programs for the past couple years, we didn't know how we could practically make this work for our family. A few months ago we would have never believed something this amazing, this impossible could happen. We would have never believed it could come together so seamlessly, all the details falling into place, despite how infeasible everything looked to our limited eyes. When S first got the call a few weeks ago that he had been short-listed for a weekend of interviews, we both agreed that this was a wonderful, far-fetched opportunity that would only happen through the intervention of Providence.
Well. It's worked out. Beautifully.
What does this mean for us, practically? Well, it will mean difficult times for all of us for a few years, as The Professor will continue his present job while also pursuing full-time graduate school. The Professor works full-time teaching at our alma mater, a private Christian liberal arts university. He also directs the planetarium there. He loves his job, his colleagues, and his university, and we knew that, for a host of reasons, we couldn't just uproot our family and move to South Bend for him to completely concentrate on graduate school. As it turns out, Notre Dame doesn't mind if he continues teaching and living here, as long as it doesn't interfere with their requirements. (One of their requirements is full-time graduate work, so pursuing the program part-time was completely out of the question.)
When The Professor met with some higher-ups at his university, he continued to get good news: they were supportive of him and very pleased with his offer, and they agreed to cut down on his class load while he attends graduate school. Again, I won't give you the details, but they are very good.
So he will drive 2 hours each way several times a week beginning in the fall. He will teach full time and learn full time. He will stay up late, read thousands of pages of text, take copious amounts of notes, continue to learn French, and immerse himself in the history and philosophy of science. He will lecture his astronomy students, direct labs, and oversee the operation of the planetarium. He will father our children and be a strong, loving husband to me. He will probably be exhausted. But if there is anyone driven enough, anyone independent enough, anyone ridiculously intelligent enough, it is my husband. I assure you.
I am so proud of him, and I am so excited to embark on this crazy adventure.
5 comments:
Wow! What a great thing to happen! I am so excited for you guys! I can fully understand how things will be when S is gone so much. With Nick working two jobs, he's gone much of the time. Like it is for us, this will only be for a season, and it's for the better of your family in the end. You, my friend, have every right to be so incredibly proud of your husband. This is most definitely orchestrated by God.
Now you should have two parties-the cancer free party AND a congratulations party!
That is awesome! It really seems to be a blessing from God. Remind him (and you!) of that next year when you're both over-stressed because he's working so hard! I wish him the best of luck in this endeavor!
WOW Christine, God is so AMAZING! I am very proud of my nephew! what a great opportunity for Stephen! Please tell him that I love him very much and I am soo very happy for him. I am practically in tears as I think back to all he has had overcome in his life.. God is so good! Love you all!
Tami
This is so great! I'm very excited for you guys! I know that it will be really hard, not just the time he'll be away but also hard work for him. Keep us up to date with when everything starts so we can all be praying. Praying for Steve that he doesn't kill himself keeping up with work and school and driving...and YOU keeping up with 3 kids by yourself more than ever before.
Just think, God knew this would happen and provided for your parents to be close!!!!!
This is fabulous news! Congratulations!
My SIL works for UofND- in the athletic department. It's a great school (and they use to have a decent football team...).
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