I'm so helpful.
The author uses the assertion that kids shouldn't see all R-rated movies as his premise, but he hints at a deeper issue: the failure of those who rate movies to accurately convey what is and isn't appropriate for different demographics. Stephen and I have always been leery of mutely following the ratings system, seeing everything that is rated "acceptable" for adults. Instead, we choose to research the content of the movies that sound interesting, and if the content sounds like it's in direct opposition to whatever is "true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable" or "excellent" (see Philippians chapter 4), then we stay away.
Now this doesn't mean that we refuse to watch anything with sex, violence, or "bad" language. In our opinion, sometimes those movies with such content actually convey the most meaningful truths. Confused yet? Here, let me give you some examples: Have you ever seen Magnolia? Or what about The Shawshank Redemption? Both of those movies make me want to puke my guts out at various points--the content is raw, hard to swallow, and shocking. But oh, the truths they espouse. The layers of human emotions they strip away, leaving only the soft candy core. The redemption they offer. Both of these films are rated R, and both of them present some beautiful moments that are worth seeing. While the characters in these movies may make terrible decisions (and have a shockingly strong grasp of profanity), the truths they steer their viewers toward do, in fact, line up with our "true, noble, pure" etc., etc., standard. They are imperfect, broken humans, glimpsing at something divine.
I guess where I draw the line content-wise is just how movies use sex, violence, language, and drug use. If it's sex for sex's sake, then I'll most likely stay away. (You're probably remembering this post. I admit, we should have just turned it off. There was a lot of sex just for the sake of having sex. Plus it was stupid. We lost some brain cells.) Same thing with violence. Phillips, in the above article, comes down hard on violence in movies and how it relates to the ratings system. We are a desensitized society, ready to allow our children to "witness an act of brutality on screen, dozens of them, hundreds--but along comes a consensual sex scene, and it's 'Cover your eyes! I said cover your eyes, Melissa!'" Obviously I'm not focusing on children watching these sort of images. We don't allow it, and we won't. But we as adults need to protect ourselves from such senseless violence and sex as well, and oftentimes we just drop the ball. We have no discernment between what is redemptive and what is simply trash. Take my Shawshank Redemption example: prison violence, prison rape, language, and an altogether gritty, depressing setting are all present. But the whole movie is about redemption (thus the title), and you come out of watching it feeling stripped of pretenses, ready to search for truths in the most unlikely of places.
It's worth the rough content.
Here's another example: Wes Anderson. We love his movies. (Bottle Rocket, Rushmore, The Royal Tenenbaums, The Life Aquatic, etc.) We will watch anything he puts out just because we like his movies so much. And his movies deal with depression, suicide, casual sex, drug use, strained family relations, and so much more. But they are good, so very good. The people are broken, but the messages so often ring with truth.
We have some friends and family who have chosen to avoid all R-rated movies, and I'm not out to mock their decision or say I'm better than they are. They have their reasons, all of them noble, and we respect their intent. But in my opinion, people who make this sort of vow are missing the point. They are assuming that all movies rated "R" are worth giving a wide berth, whereas anything rated lesser than "R" is okay. Now we all know just how sick, crass, and generally disgusting a lot of PG-13 movies can be. Michael Phillips touched on some of that in his article, and I think he hit it spot on. Truth be told, I'm much more wary of movies rated "PG-13" than I am of those rated "R."
I guess, in the end, it's all about using our brains. The entertainment industry, while it produces a lot of trash, isn't trash in and of itself. It just is, and we need to put what wisdom and discernment we have been given to good use when we partake of Hollywood's offerings. If you haven't yet read that article, here it is again. Really, it's good. And its take on Watchmen's violence has my husband, a fan of the graphic novel, thinking twice about going to see it.
As he put it, "it's one thing seeing it in comic book form, and a whole other thing seeing it graphically acted out in front of you."
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We saw Watchmen - it was S's turn to choose, needless to say. I didn't enjoy it, partially because there was a VERY SMALL CHILD sitting next to me with his parents. I'm not kidding, he was like 7 or 8. I was totally disturbed. He kept making comments about the violence and cheering, and I wanted to punch out his awful parents for even bringing him. I weep for what our society is coming to.
I wholeheartedly agree that the rating system is whack (yup, whack). Before Shelly and I see a movie, we like to check out what ScreenIt has to say. (http://screenit.com/search_movies.html)
What we really like about this site is that they list anything and everything that even might offend someone. It is then up to you to decide how much sex is too much, for example.
Another side note: we generally don't read the plot summary, etc -- we can get that much from a trailer. I don't want accidentally read a spoiler...
-Eric
I am really having a hard time finding an Easter outfit for Elijah. We (or one of our moms) buy something new for holidays, but There are not many super cute boy ones. Walmart has some REALLY cute ones up to 9 months and after that nothing for the toddler boys! Target has some, but they only had one size left for Elijah. I am NOT planning on using it as an excuse to go to Orland and check Babies R Us or Childrens Place!
I think I remember you saying you don't use credit cards. Actually, I think I remember you saying something about FPU and Dave Ramsey? Would that be correct? Nick is actually going to be coordinating FPU in a couple weeks. He's done it twice before. We are so far behind on that though. Thank goodness we had the mini emergency fund a couple years ago though! We needed it!
I agree that our rating system needs some revamping. Loved reading your editorial!
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